I come across a lot of forum entries, and comment boxes turned into debates between Christian and non-christian people. These untimely discussions usually take on topics like the existence of God, the historicity of Jesus Christ, life after death, morality and such; ending up into word fights on religious preference, tolerance and human rights. I was once involved in such a situation and I find it amusing that discussions like these never end.
One characteristic which surfaces in these situations is closed-mindedness. And often, people will start accusing others of this, or of intolerance or of disrespect even if the claims often find no justification or proof. What’s happening is just a continuous exchange of phrases, quotes and illustrations; arguments and the like. Nothing is really accomplished.
Maybe the Christian fellow feels sorry for not being able to convince others of the existence of God or of the divinity of Jesus Christ, but this is not the work of everybody.
“Not many of you should presume to be teachers, my brothers, because you know that we who teach will be judged more strictly. We all stumble in many ways. If anyone is never at fault in what he says, he is a perfect man, able to keep his whole body in check.” James 3:1, 2 [NIV]
We sometimes get in trouble because we put ourselves into situations where we assume the role of a teacher, consciously or not; without the proper/adequate equipment of spiritual knowledge, scripture, or theology. We try to win unbelievers through philosophical argument, but we never get anything done.
I know that oral witness for Christ is essential to our faith and practice, that it is our duty as Christians to share our Savior to the world and to “make disciples of all nations” but there are a few biblical principles that we must also remember in light of this:
“The Light shines in the darkness, and the darkness did not comprehend it.” John 1:5 [NASB]
“But a natural man does not accept the things of the Spirit of God, for they are foolishness to him; and he cannot understand them, because they are spiritually appraised.” 1 Corinthians 2:14 [NASB]
“Do not give what is holy to dogs, and do not throw your pearls before swine, or they will trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces.” Matthew 7:6 [NASB]
As I always say, “there is a balance here”. A lot of Christians (especially evangelicals) who are very excited about the prospect of converting someone to Christ. But we get frustrated because we end up debating a non-christian person and actually lessen the possibility to convert him/her. Not everybody was given the gift of evangelizing and teaching/preaching. (1Cor.12) And though it is our duty to share Christ, not everybody is given the ability, nor the opportunity. I would like to make it clear that I am NOT discouraging personal witnessing. It is essential. But sometimes we are actually doing things in an ineffective way. There is a better way of witnessing to the lost. This is shown to us by the Master, Jesus Christ.
Let’s look at the life of Jesus and how he proclaimed the kingdom of God.
Don’t cast pearls to swine
“Do not give what is holy to dogs, and do not throw your pearls before swine, or they will trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces.” Matthew 7:6
It’s quite an offensive statement, and I apologize to use such phrases but this is from the mouth of Jesus. This is actually a really suitable analogy when you come to think of it. If you’re having a hard time convincing others that God exists or that Jesus is God, the first thing I would like to tell you is don’t. Don’t give yourself a hard time trying to convince natural people to believe there is a God through oral argument, through debate, through using scripture, etc… They just won’t accept it. Period. It’s quite a waste of time. You may share but don’t argue. No one wins when this happens. Jesus did not trouble himself by trying to argue about the existence of God. He himself knows that God exists and the people whom he addressed actually assume the existence of God, the Jews. He was talking to them “at their level”. Now, I’m not trying to insinuate that Christians are at a “higher level” of knowledge than non-christians. Not at all. “We have all sinned and fall short“, we must always remember this. But as the scripture says, the non-spiritual will never understand the spiritual. The pig will never understand that a pearl is valuable. The darkness can never be understood unless light is shone upon it. Jesus did not speak to a farmer like a lawyer. He did not speak to the fisherman as a scribe. Jesus spoke of ordinary, everyday things which everybody knew about and understood; though they had deeper meanings. And these deeper meanings: the seeker sought to know. He did not speak jargon to the layman. The point is they will never understand. They don’t want to. They are like people who don’t want to come out to the light because it hurts their eyes. The light of Jesus seen through the Gospel is just too bright for them. It’s just too much to take in all at once.
“What’s happening is just a continuous exchange of phrases, quotes and illustrations; arguments and the like. Nothing is really accomplished.”
Don’t speak “spiritual nonsense” to the non-spiritual person. If you put yourself in his/her shoes, you also wouldn’t understand. Spiritual things are nonsense for them.
Fellow Christian, don’t burden yourself with trying to become what you are not yet. Leave it to the apologists, pastors and such. Someday, your time will come and by then you must be ready for it.
Stay Common as You Can Be
The Bible is clear that we should be different from the world. We were called to stand out. But a lot of people will actually misunderstand this and take the position that we should totally, absolutely different from other people. I’m not saying that we need to do everything the world does. Christ is against that. But a few points for us to remember.
A lot of young people actually hate church because they think it is some kind of a club for hypocrites. They have the notion that church is an organization of people who alienate themselves from others. Thus they don’t feel welcome in the church. They don’t feel the love of Jesus.
One reason why people won’t accept your witness is because you’re different. You say you’re different. We Christians are supposed to be different from the “world” that is: we are turning away from sin, while the world condones and even promotes sin.
Verily. But we are still people. We are still human.
“I am not asking you to take them out of this world, but to keep them from the evil one. They are not part of this world any more than I am.” John 17:15, 16 [NLT]
We live “in” this world (planet earth, reality) but we are not “of” this world (in spirit, beliefs, intentions, viewpoints, practices etc…) Notice the prepositions. We must come to realize that Christ did not alienate himself to the world.
“…but emptied Himself (laid aside His privileges), taking the form of a bond-servant, and being made in the likeness of man. Being found in appearance as a man, He humbled Himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross.” Philippians 2:7, 8 [NASB]
He “lowered” himself. He became the son of a carpenter. He himself then became a carpenter. His greatest sacrifice next to the scorn and shame of the cross is surrendering the glory of heaven for the rags of humanity. One mistake we usually commit when conversing with unbelievers is approaching them as a “saint”; and believe me, an unbelievers’ definition of the word is the opposite of its actual meaning. They sometimes look at us like “holy cows”. Excuse the language, but its true! They think of Christians as holy “bullies” (that’s what I meant) who have come to condemn sinners and point out flaws. We are NOT “holy bullies”. Jesus himself condemned being a “holy bully”. The holy hypocrites of his day were the Pharisees and the Sadducees, and Christ rebuked them, even harshly!
Jesus Christ had fellowship with the commoner, the rejected, people labeled as sinners. He did not share with their sin, and we too must not. But he let them feel that he was there to help them in their distress. He is indeed a true friend who accepts us for who we are and not for what we have or do.
Shine Your Light
”You are the light of the world. A city on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in heaven.” Matthew 5:14-16 [NIV]
The affirming factor in Jesus ministry and preaching was his deeds. He walked the talk. There was nothing in his teaching that he did not do himself. He knew his homework. Not only mentally, but in his whole being. This is what can make or break our witness for Christ.
Notice the ministry of Christ as presented in the Gospels, notice his preaching. He was not all-intellectual nor all-spiritual. Jesus also embarked on a ministry to help those in need. It is obvious that Christ did not only feed and quench spiritual hunger and thirst, but also did so literally.
“Jesus went throughout Galilee, teaching in their synagogues, preaching the good news of the kingdom, and healing every disease and sickness among the people. News about him spread all over Syria, and people brought to him all who were ill with various diseases, those suffering severe pain, the demon-possessed, those having seizures, and the paralyzed, and he healed them. Large crowds from Galilee, the Decapolis, Jerusalem, Judea and the region across the Jordan followed him.” Matthew 4:23-25 [NIV]
Notice that it is our “deeds” that will cause people to glorify our father in heaven; to actually acknowledge the presence and the very existence of God. Natural, non-spiritual people want hard evidence just like the apostle Thomas. They want to see results! They want to see how Jesus works in the lives of those who claim to follow him. It’s unfortunate that what unbelievers see in us is hypocrisy and closed-mindedness, and that is what we should remove in the church. That is what we need to remove from ourselves. We don’t want to end up like Ananias and Sapphira, do we? We must let our actions speak to the lost word.
“Little children, let us not love with word or with tongue, but in deed and truth.” 1 John 3:18 [NASB]
A Little Secrecy Won’t Hurt
Another thing that we see in the life of Jesus is this. He kept secrets. What secrets? We find instances in the Gospels where Jesus asks people to keep his most guarded secret. That he was the Messiah, the Son of God. Jesus kept an arsenal of secret weapons (heheh). Well, that doesn’t sound very nice but he did have a few tricks up his sleeve.
I am not about to tell people here that we need to deceive people for our witness to work. NO. Christ is against any kind of deception against others. What then were his secrets? First and foremost, was his secret prayer life. Among the twelve apostles only Peter, James, and John were privileged to accompany him during one of his prayer times. And if you know what happened, the three actually fell asleep. In Matthew chapter six, Jesus emphasized on doing somethings in secret; like giving to the poor, prayer and fasting. You may ask, how then will that serve as a witness? Well those two are different things; but one thing is clear: God rewards such “secret” acts. Secretly pray for your friend to whom you want to share Christ to. Secretly pray for the atheist next door. If you pray hard enough, I believe God will reward you accordingly. =)
Jesus didn’t teach with the intention of becoming famous. He didn’t heal people to become famous. He himself asked people at times to keep their healing a secret. He silenced demons who uttered about his true identity. He did not directly answer questions asking him if he is the Messiah. And he did not allow the apostles to proclaim what Peter had exclaimed:
“You are the Christ, the Son of the Living God.” Matthew 16:16 [NASB]
He did not allow them to declare his true identity. Not yet. Not until the opportune time. Not until he suffered and was crucified. Not until he rose from the dead. Not until his claims of being God was justified by proof of his resurrection. The Bible tells us to “fix our eyes on Jesus”. To follow him. And I believe there is also a reason why we also have to keep our Christianity a secret for some period of time.
Dear Christian reader, I would like to clarify that I am not telling you to keep your Christianity a secret. We must declare Christ with the full strength of our being! We should not be ashamed of the gospel! It is how people are saved, by knowing and receiving Jesus! And like the saints before us we must take a stand even in persecution, shame or death!
But please notice that we are trying to learn from the Master, our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ and the pattern of his life; on how to witness without words to non-spiritual people.
One thing I learned is that if you blatantly proclaim your faith too early in a relationship/conversation/engagement, you spoil the opportunity (how early is dependent on the situation). If you verbally reveal your belief in Jesus to a new acquaintance without actually establishing any sort of personal relationship beforehand, most probably you will end up being criticized. Not that you are scared of being criticized, but if you really want the person to come to Jesus, you must let him/her come to you first; to a person who follows Jesus Christ. He/she needs a physical, solid example to follow; just like the Mosaic law of the old testament to the Israelites : a physically, materially focused law, a shadow of the actual thing. Remember, they cannot determine the spiritual because they simply cannot. Sin is blocking out your verbal witness.
One example I could think of is the way Ruth came to be an ancestor of David. If you read the book of Ruth, you will see that she was just basically following Naomi. But it was through that “following” that she found herself taking refuge “under the wings of the Almighty God.”
You proclaim you are a Christian? Unbelievers care little about that. What they want to see is how you live your life and the results of your “godly” living. If you can “shine your light” in this way even without words, it is most likely that your verbal witness will bear significance when it reaches the ear of your hearers. They will have to respect you. Only the people with the hardest of hearts will not listen to you. But also remember that the hardest of stones can be shaped by constant drips of water. Genuine conversion to Christ doesn’t come easy. There will be times when you won’t be able to witness for yourself the fruit of your prayers and efforts.
“So then neither the one who plants nor the one who waters is anything, but God who causes the growth.” 1 Corinthians 3:7 [NASB]
Most importantly, pray about it and trust God to bring about the results. You just have to be patient and wait upon the “good, pleasing and perfect will of God, that happens in His time for the good of those who love Him.”
May God bless you and keep you.
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